philosophy + practice

My approach to BDSM is deeply psychological, meaning I’m more interested in what’s going on in your head than what’s going on in your pants.


My ultimate goal is to facilitate a transformative experience, one in which W/we are both active participants. I typically do this by approaching my sessions in one of two ways: from the perspective of behaviour modification or catharsis trough ordeal.

The contexts in which I create these experiences usually fall into one of three styles of session; traditional FemDomme, strict discipline (CP) and/or fetish.


Although separately defined, they have many elements that cross over and the definition is probably more specific to how I present in session i.e. traditional Dominatrix, disciplinarian or fetishist (with or without D/s dynamic).


With 10+ years experience in the industry my range of interests and skills is broad and ever growing and I am able to cater to many types of session requests. However, I do preference certain types of play over others and I do seek to connect with those of you who share similar interests.


I’m particularly interested in meeting clients interested in exploring sessions based around:

 + Bondage (leather, latex, rope, chain, plastic, stockings etc)

 + Sensory Deprivation/Overload

 + Mummification - 2 hr minimum

 + Breath Play

 + Corporal Punishment (spanking, paddles, strap, cane, etc)

 + Impact Play

 + CBT & Nipple Play (sensual to extreme)

 + Medical Scenes

 + Needles/Sounds

 + Electroplay (E-stim, Violet Wand)

 + Milking (Serious Kit Machine) 

 + Rubber/Latex Fetish

 + Service Slave Training 

Please be aware that in person sessions with me will involve a certain level of intense physical engagement. That doesn't have to mean 'pain' per se, but they are focused on more traditional BDSM practices vs sensual/light domination scenes. 

This list isn't exhaustive. If you don't see something you're interested in, feel free to enquire as to its availability. Before doing so, please consider the session types I don't offer:

Goddess worship + sensual domination + erotic tie and tease + scripted scenes + body worship + nudity + sex  + brown showers.